Synthesis

Thesis: Marc should break up with Carly because they both lack the time and emotional temperaments necessary for a committed relationship. 

Secondly, this shows how Marc lacks the emotional temperaments needed because a relationship requires the individuals to be there for each other and think about the other persons emotions before acting. Breaking up with Carly is a better decision because if they stay together it will end up as a toxic cycle due to the fact that they are not ready emotionally at this age. As shown in source F, Marc asks Carly if she is ignoring him because he is going to a friends party that she doesn’t like. Even though he is communicating by asking this, he then continues to agree to pick up another girl and go to the same party. This shows that he did not actually care about her feelings, if he did he wouldn’t have picked up another girl and continued to go to the party. In source G it shows a picture of Marc giving Anna a piggy back ride. This is can be seen as disloyal and he is clearly crossing a boundary. In a relationship your partner should be respected. Even after Carly expressed her anger through text, Marc continued to take pictures with other girls. This is not something an emotionally mature person would do in a relationship. Of course, in a relationship you shouldn’t be fully dependent on each other and should know how to balance you life out with friends. But according to Source B Marc had been on call with Anna for the past two nights, this shows how Marc has not thought about how this could affect Carly’s emotions. This can also be viewed as emotional cheating by Carly due to the fact that Marc had been on call with her for two nights, he picked her up to go to the bonfire, and the picture they took together. Considering that Marc has not given any consideration and thought about Carly’s emotions they should break up. Breaking up is the best long term option even if it may hurt in the moment. By breaking up let themselves give more time to focus on what they really want to do instead of always being upset or angry about what the other person did.